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I have a boyfriend who looks at porn. I didn't really care at first, although I just found out that he's connecting to people on yahoo chat rooms that have sexual names - it shows up in my computer window as "connected to" updates to his user name and I did not pry or use his computer to find out this information.

Now it's really starting to bother me...are these things considered cheating? I asked him about it and he said that his account must have been hacked - that is probably untrue (he just forgot to hide his updates when chatting with me on yahoo messenger).

The relationship is bordering on serious - 1 1/2 years.
Am I overreacting?

Porn isn't really cheating...although it can become addictive and this can be a problem.

If he talking to other women online sexually that is defanitly cheating.

I would find out more about this mess and have a serious talk with your man.

Damn, hun. This must be the millionth time you've asked a stuffy question about your boyfriend. Really, porn, cheating? Loosen up, huh? If you really don't like who he is that much, break up with him, for the love of Set.

-Val

Porn not really but it depends how you feel about it.. online adult chats YES... coz they arent just some chic on a DVD, it could go further.

go under the hypothetical that he is and talk to him about it let him kno how it makes you feel, if he doesnt care then it will be like this forever so decide now if you can live with it or not

Porn really isn't but he should tell you instead of you finding out.
now chatting behind your back pretty much is cheating

i think everyone watches porn, but i think the chatting can be considered cheating...but make sure incase he's just talking to these people as friends, because sometimes i use really provocative names just to get people talking...don't ask why i'm an idiot. lol

Cheating or not I would say there is a definite problem.

A relationship is as wonderful as the couple can't keep their hands off each other. Resorting to porn and possibly masturbation means a couple is drifting apart.

Definitely Not! He has no right to engage in sexual chats with strangers in chat rooms. Yes that is considered cheating and it's the principal that counts.

Porn- no.
Adult chat- YES.
The difference is that the chats are interactive, while porn is one-sided.

Funny I was just talking about this with some family! I think yes because you are looking at other naked girls and almost like falling in love with them! PORN IS GROSS!